Saturday, 12 April 2014

Don't Ignore Me!!

Hey guys!

Hope your all having an awesome week.

Ok so of late I have become somewhat of a serial dater, I'm like a dating machine! For the most part I don't think men are that confusing but there is one thing I will never understand! Why oh why do a lot of men think its much better to ignore someone then to just let them know what's going on?

So something came up you cant make the date or you just don't think you mesh well together why cant you just say that???

Now this does seem to be turning into somewhat of a rant and that's not really how I mean to come off. I'm not bitter (honest) I just hate having my time wasted!!

The one thing I hate the most is sitting round with my thumb up my bum waiting for a guy! If you don't want to see me there are plenty of other people who do! So if you don't want to enjoy my awesome company let me free to spend my time with somebody who does.

Yes ok telling someone your just not that into them is never fun its the worst part of dating to me, however as a grownup sometimes you have to do these things. I'm sure if a girl wasn't that into you, you would want to know the score right?

So to all the guys out there ignoring a girl is never EVER a good idea. Be man enough to let her know what is going on, chances are she will be totally cool about the whole thing and that crazy reaction you were expecting wont ever happen!

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Friday, 31 January 2014

The Last Single Girl

So.....that pretty much sums up how I have been feeling these past few weeks.

In my teens and early 20s I loved being single and even when I was the only single one of my friends it didn't bother me in the slightest, I was too busy having a good time. ;)
But now we are all getting older everyone is getting engaged, married or having babies and I'm starting to feel a little left in the dust.
The thing of it is I'm not even sure I want all that serious stuff, I still feel young and crazy! the thought of being tied down makes me want to run 1000 miles away. Having said that when all the girls you used to go out on the town with are now all loved up you cant help but feel slightly alone.
What has really made this hit home is my last single girlfriend is now all loved up too. Don't get me wrong I couldn't be more happy for her, She is an awesome person and the guy she has met is super nice too. Its just now I have nobody to "joke" about being single forever with.

What makes being the last single girl left even worse is this is inevitably the first thing people always ask you about... so how's the love life?, have you tried Internet dating? what about that new tinder app you need to get on there! and of course from my lovely nan "do you have a man friend yet?" Then when you say no no still single they all look at you with those aww poor lonely single you eyes!
Then comes the speech every single person has heard a million times "he's out there" "give it time" "everyone always finds someone" "you wont be single forever" Well I questions all of this! I know they are just trying to make me feel better but this is all such crap! My auntie is in her 50s never married and still lives at home! this is a screaming reminder that well not everyone does end up happy!

I have never had a serious relationship and at 20somthing that makes me feel a little odd as everyone around me has had a few by now. I just refuse to settle like I see so many people around me in crappy relationship just cause they think anything is better than being single! I really don't get that! surely a relationship is suppose to enhance your life not make it worse???

It doesn't help living in such a tiny country town where everyone is shacked up by the time they leave school.  I feel if I moved to a big city where the majority of people are career minded and getting married and having babies is the last thing on there mind, I wouldn't really give it a second thought.

Until then though I will continue to spend my Friday nights in with a giant glass of wine listening to lonely FM and crying into my meal for one...................................or kissing handsome strangers I met on tinder either or! :)

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Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Stay Positive

So recently i got to thinking, i am in general a glass half full positive person. However i am aware i can easily be lead down a negative path by others. For example if my single friends are depressed and complaining about being single i get swept up in it all and start complaining myself and looking at my life as empty, even though when i really think about it i am totally happy being single i embrace it even.

Its becoming more and more clear to me as I'm discovering who i am as a person that i need to keep these negative people at arms length. Now don't get my wrong all of us need a good rant about life every now and again, but I'm talking about the people that NEVER see the positive side to anything, people who take every opportunity to complain about this or that.

I make a conscious decision everyday to "choose happy" a concept i came upon from one of my favourite youtubers ShayCarl.

One of my favourite things about myself is that i always see the silver lining. I never let anything keep me down for too long. I can turn a negative situation into motivation. Its not always easy but the way i see it is one minute spent winging and complaining is one less minute of happiness.

Now before i get to philosophical, the point of me writing this post was just to say, I will no longer allow negative people to suck my energy. Surrounding myself with positive influences will help me achieve my goals.

For too long i have allowed negative people to influence my thoughts and make me believe i have no chance of achieving what i want.

If you feel you are living a negative life STOP. Now is the time for change. Happiness really is a choice.

I post positive messages on my facebook, instagram and twitter daily. Come check them out and start living with your glass half full.

XOXO

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Friday, 8 February 2013

Stepping out of the Shadows

Sometimes in my life i have felt totally alone, there may have been people around me but non of them really "got" me. It seemed like everything i wanted to achieve or how i was living my life wasn't good enough for anyone. If its not how they would choose to live or not something they believe in then i shouldn't want to be that way either.

Society and even at times my friends and family have made me feel like i need to change the fundamental person that i am. I have been made to feel like its not OK to be happy the way i am, its not how the majority looks/acts/lives so i must dislike myself for it and am not aloud to be happy till i am completely changed. I feel in fact that a lot of that "majority" would love to live there lives a little different, to live out in the open with whatever little secrets they feel they need to hide from the world, to have the superficial pressure taken off.

I am one of those people that can not hide myself in the shadows anymore. I will live my life exactly how i choose. I will dream as big as my imagination lets me, and i refuse to allow people to make me believe i can not achieve everything i want. I believe everyone has the potential to be absolutely anything they want to be, all you need is self belief and the determination to work as long and hard as it takes.

I now feel completely free to look exactly they way i am happy with, I will not apologise if my body shape offends you, for being confident in my sexuality as a strong woman or wearing something you deem inappropriate. Like the saying goes i will dance like nobody is watching, love like i have never been hurt, sing like nobody is listening and live like its my last day.

We only have one life and it goes past quicker than we can imagine, i really don't want to waste it living my life for someone else?

I will ignore the judgement and ignore the hate its says more about them then it does about me.



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Wednesday, 6 February 2013

I'm Just a Fat human

 
 
I love what this says. It does puzzle me sometimes that “fat” people are put into a different category, like we arnt the same as the rest of “normal” socity, and like “fat admirers” have to “come out the closet” that’s all just craziness to me how is liking someone of bigger proportions different to say liking blondes?

I sometimes think people feel this way because they like being the victim, but then i look around me and talk to other plus size girls and hear horror stories about abuse on the streets and other such issues.

I wish we could live in a world where people are just people being gay, bi, tall, short, fat, thin, ginger, or anything thing else wasn’t a pre-deciding factor to how we are treated.

It should come down to the type or person you choose to be.

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Tuesday, 5 February 2013

Work in progress

Hey guys,

So my blog is still defiantly a work in progress, I'm still figuring out my place in the big wide blogger world.

One of my New Years resolutions was to put more effort into this blog. I put a lot of time into setting it all up and i really do love blogging when i get down to it. I am however the worlds biggest procrastinator. I constantly think about what to write on here but never end up sitting down to do it.

I have decided from now on i will just write about what is on my mind, and try not to be intimidated by all the other amazing blogs out there. I am unique and so my blog should be as well.

I will still do some of the stuff i have written before but i also want this to be a little online memoir for myself.

I am also a Youtuber and maybe find it easier to talk to a camera than to write things down, i want to be good at both things, so i will be working on that here. (Jeez i feel like I'm rambling alot) I want my youtube and my blog to tie in  together.

I will continue to work on this and hopefully this means i will improve.

Thanks for reading

Katie J

XOXO

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Saturday, 13 October 2012

Yankee Candle Halloween Review

I'm so excited that its October! I love this time of year and one of my favourite holidays is Halloween! Nothing better than being snuggled up when its cold and windy outside watching a scary movie eating popcorn.

Since i bought my first Yankee candle last Christmas i cant get enough of them. I just think they finish off a room so well and with all the many different scents they can really set the mood.
Also of all the scented candles i have tried i believe these have by far the best kick they can fill the whole house.

So when i was browsing yankeedirect.com and spotted the newly launched Halloween scents i couldn't help but get one. After reading all the descriptions i had to go with the Witches Brew as I'm a big fan of musky scents.

This is how the website described the candle:
Yankee Candle Witches Brew Medium Jar- The spicy sweet aroma of exotic patchouli casts a captivating Halloween spell. Create the perfect Halloween atmosphere at home with this special seasonal fragrance!

To me this candle completely sums up the Halloween mood its dark, musky, bewitching scent really does conger up thoughts of witches making potions and casting spells in the deep dark woods.

My only disappointment is that they dont make this candle in a large size, going back to stock up i think.

XOXOX


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